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#WhatAboutWeddings - A Poem by Sarah Howell

#WhatAboutWeddings - A Poem by Sarah Howell


Sarah - @TheHopefulBride
Sarah - @TheHopefulBride Updated:
8th of March 2023

Inspired by the #whataboutweddings campaign, Sarah Howell (@thehopefulbride) submitted to us this poem. We hope you enjoy reading.

#whataboutweddings

#WhatAboutWeddings

I can queue in shops single file
But not walk down the aisle
Because it would be mad
To hold the arm of my dad
I can order a roast
But not raise a toast
Of sparkling bubbles
It might bring trouble
And I can’t take a chance
And have a first dance 
With my other half
That would be daft

We can visit the pubs
All breath the same air
But I can’t make a speech
That would lack care
I can browse when I shop
And touch lots of things
But I must wash my hands
Before we exchange rings
I can have dinner and drinks
In a room full of strangers
But not with my friends
That would be dangerous

Days can be changed
But not in spirit or tone
Love is not cancelled
Not even postponed
I understand reasons
Behind all of our dreading
But I must ask this
What about weddings?

By Sarah Howell (@thehopefulbride) - Submitted in July 2020.

Sarah got married in October 2020 during the coronavirus pandemic, read her tips for couples going ahead with a covid wedding. For more information about this campaign, visit the official #whataboutweddings website. 

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Sarah - @TheHopefulBride

Sarah created the account @thehopefulbride to document her COVID wedding journey. With experience planning a wedding during the pandemic and having to deal with the ups and downs first-hand, Sarah is the perfect person to share her thoughts and ideas with other couples in similar situations.

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