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 Podcast: “Choosing Your Wedding Party”

Podcast: “Choosing Your Wedding Party”


Nikita Thorne Guides for Brides
Nikita Thorne Updated:
8th of March 2023

In the second episode of Guides for Brides - The Wedding Podcast, Nikita and Amelia discuss a difficult, but important, wedding decision - who is going to be in your wedding party?

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Choosing your Wedding Party - Season 1, Episode 2 of Guides for Brides - the Wedding Podcast

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What was covered in this podcast episode?

We run through who we consider to be in the wedding party, how to choose those key roles, how to manage those people’s expectations of their role and avoid upsetting those who can’t be in the wedding party. 

During our discussion we defined the wedding party as those who have a key role in your wedding. This includes those who have a specific job and potentially an additional cost (both time and money).

Key roles discussed include:

  • The wedding couple
  • Both of your parents
  • The person walking you down the aisle
  • The groomsmen / bridesmaids
  • Ushers
  • Any children who will have some involvement in your wedding

By the end of this episode, you will know what your key considerations are when it comes to choosing your bridesmaids, groomsmen, people of honour and others who are involved in your wedding. You'll feel more confident on how to approach the idea of children being involved in your big day and deal with the disappointment of those who potentially can't get as involved as they may have hoped to. You’ll also have some great ideas for asking people to be in your wedding along with knowing how to manage the expectations of those involved.

Listen to this episode of Guides for Brides - The Wedding Podcast today.

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 Please note: this episode was recorded before lockdown in England (5th January 2020)

Nikita Thorne Guides for Brides

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Nikita Thorne

Nikita is a wedding planning expert and newlywed having tied the knot in 2023. She is the host of Guides for Brides - The Wedding Podcast and regularly speaks at wedding industry conferences and national wedding shows to inform and inspire couples who are planning their big days. She keeps on top of the latest wedding trends in design and fashion and loves to see the new innovative ideas from wedding professionals across the country. If you need practical planning advice, Nikita has been through the entire wedding planning process, so is your best contact!

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