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Writing a good auto-responder

Writing a good auto-responder


Alison Hargreaves
Alison Hargreaves Updated:
8th of March 2023

It's a fact; couples are planning their wedding in the evenings and at weekends. Our website is at it's busiest on a Sunday evening with most enquiries being sent between Sunday - Tuesday on Guides for Brides. The thing is, couples are more likely to book the first suitable business to respond. So, you either need to be online 24/7 or have a great auto-responder that captures their attention. Now's the time to fine-tune your reply...

Make your first 6 words count

If it is obvious that it is an automated response it may not even be opened. Aim to open the conversation with your sales prospect, not close it.

"Closed door" auto-responses:

  • Thank you for contacting us.
  • Our offices are currently closed.
  • I'm out of the country.
  • This is an automated response.

Conversation starters to encourage recipients to open the email and find out more:

  • It's good to hear from you.
  • We're here to help.
  • A little known fact about us;
Bride researching her wedding

Intriguing subject lines

Most people will open an email with an intriguing or catchy subject line that really grasps their attention. Remember, just as those first 6 words, you'll want to keep the conversation open. Here are some ideas to help you form a subject line that will encourage potential clients to open your auto-response email:

  • While you wait, allow me to introduce myself...
  • Thanks for your email, I'll be in touch very soon
  • I'm so looking forward to chatting with you!
  • Away from my desk, but while I have you...

Ditch the 'one size fits all' wording

Most auto-responders are intentionally neutral as you don't know who will receive it; new sales prospects, existing clients, suppliers, colleagues.  But think a little deeper... 

Existing clients, suppliers and colleagues are unlikely to read beyond the first line of an auto-responder; they know you'll be in touch and that there is nothing in that auto-responder that can help them in the meantime. 

Those most likely to actually read the auto-responder are the new sales prospects who want to find out more about you and your ethos.

Keep it brief, friendly and always reiterate your USP within the wording. If the enquiry originated from a wedding planning platform the sender may have forgotten who they'd contacted and why, so remind them that you are that award-winning florist or unique riverside hotel.

Wedding business replying to customer's messages

Signpost to resources

Think about what most sales prospects ask you for and signpost accordingly. Links to your price list, PDF brochure, a virtual tour or an indication of availability can be a great help in keeping the sales process moving forward while you're unable to reply immediately in person.

Remember, your couple were likely to be in "buying" mode when they sent the enquiry so time is of the essence in getting the information to them that will confirm you are the right choice for them.   

Include links to your social media and your website or blog to keep the customer engaged in your brand until you can reply in person.

Now you've got the auto-responder to a great standard, it's time to make sure your advert is capturing couples' attention. Log in to your business hub here.

Alison Hargreaves

About the author


Alison Hargreaves

Alison founded Guides for Brides in 1995 and has been advising brides and businesses ever since. She has an unrivalled knowledge of the wedding industry and is part of an international network of wedding professionals and entrepreneurs. Alison frequently appears on podcasts and expert panels as well as judging various wedding awards.

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