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Category: Day to Day Life at GfB

To err is human, to forgive is divine

Church
Those with an eagle eye may have noticed a major change to our site with the addition of 9168 churches last night. This is a major project that we have been quietly working on with the Church of England for several months and will, at last, make churches more accessible to couples who do not regularly attend.

Unfortunately we overlooked one minor issue, and as we uploaded adverts for every Church of England church, from Guernsey to the Isle of Man, an automated email went to every single one of them confirming a total of £871000 in advertising.

Never before have we answered quite so many phone calls in such a short period of time, while waiting for approval from the church media office to send an email to confirm that we are not charging churches for this service.

What has surprised us, from the calls we have received, is the variation from church to church in the understanding and interpretation of the Marriage Measure 2008. Some have asked for the wording on our site to be changed to discourage “casual Christianity” they would like to make it clear that couples are expected to have a strong connection with the church where they would like to marry as well as regularly attending for at least six months and undertaking to join an ongoing “support” group. Other vicars are keen to make everyone welcome if the law allows it.

It will be interesting to see whether making the church more accessible to couples starts to correct the balance between civil ceremonies and church weddings.

Wedding TV


It was great to sign an agreement with Wedding TV today. They have had a rough few months with changes in owners and investors, but they have a great team headed up by the indomitable Nick Tiday and some great content on their channel.

In the United States, wedding television shows are big news, and with the popularity of Big Fat Gypsy Weddings and Four Weddings in the UK we are heading in the same direction. Sky’s Wedding TV channel currently includes content on venues, honeymoon features and a couple of different series on wedding cakes. “Crafty Brides” will follow soon – a series on how to make your own wedding dress, cakes, invites and bouquet. We will be featuring some of their content on our web site and look forward to seeing our TV adverts going out over the next few months.

Sky’s Wedding TV can be found on Channel 266

Discount Weddings

I am surprised it has taken this long. I received an email today from a company following in the footsteps of Groupon with a discount wedding web site.

Participating businesses offer a minimum of a 25% discount to brides, and then pay the web site a further 25% commission on each deal.

Will it work? Never.

For an important event like a wedding couples choose their suppliers based on a large number of criteria, not on price alone. For the company to lose nearly 50% in the deal they are likely to cut corners in supplying their service. So, the couple has compromised on their choice of supplier AND is receiving sub-standard service.

It is bad news for wedding businesses too. Savvy brides will start browsing the net to see if they can book their chosen supplier cheaper by not booking direct. So, the couple that you met at a wedding fair and were ready to book you at full price will book you via “MyWeddingDeals” with a 25% discount, landing you with a bill for 25% commission just to double your misery.

Cutting edge in wedding stationery


Place settings by CuttureIt is always nice to see new businesses with a really good product, and at Earls Court’s Top Drawer trade event yesterday the stand that really stood out was Cutture who design and make intricate wedding place settings and small decorative pieces.

Director Helen Sharland is working hard to expand the range which also includes beautiful butterflies, birds and snowflakes to perch on the edge of wine glasses as an innovative place setting.

Has that dog signed a disclaimer?

It was with a sigh of relief that I read yesterday’s Prime Minister notes detailing plans to drastically reduce the amount of time SMEs are spending on risk assessments and health and safety, and addressing the “blame and claim” culture where employers seem automatically at fault for accidents in the work place. This must be the best news for small businesses for a very long time.

Every Wedding Fair we run requires an inordinate amount of health and safety checks and paperwork, but to add to that our offices are in open countryside, so our risk assessments need to cover such eventualities of safely removing a small pony from the kitchen and a chicken from a desk. Both have happened in recent years.

We had, however, failed to file a risk assessment for the eventuality of a seemingly friendly Staffordshire Terrier leaping into Grace’s car as she left the office yesterday. Having curled up on the passenger seat nothing could persuade it to get back out, so off Grace drove to the local vets with several stone of potentially aggressive dog within easy reach of her jugular. Imagine the liability there had it all gone wrong. Having safely deposited the dog with the vet we are now awaiting a claim from the dog’s owner against us for kidnapping their stray dog.

The regulation changes can’t come soon enough.