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5 ways to give your wedding a romantic vibe

5 ways to give your wedding a romantic vibe


Alison Hargreaves Guides for Brides Bio
Alison Hargreaves Updated:
8th of March 2023

The reason you’re planning a wedding, ultimately, is down to love. You met, you fell in love and now you’re planning a celebration you’ll never forget. Below, the team behind Bijou Wedding Venues share their top 5 ways to give your wedding day a romantic vibe!

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Notley Abbey, Buckinghamshire

Make a Surprise Entrance

The moment you see your partner for the first time on your wedding day will be an unforgettable one. Making a statement entrance upon arrival at your wedding venue, or as you make your way down the aisle, may consume budget and time, but you, your guests and ultimately your partner will hopefully talk about it for years to come. We’ve seen anything and everything across Bijou’s collection of country house wedding venues; from the groom and his party landing in a helicopter on the lawn, to the bridal party dancing down the aisle in perfect sequence.

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Botleys Mansion, Surrey

Engrave your wedding rings

Your wedding rings will be the one item from your actual wedding day that will remain with you forever. Having your wedding rings engraved would not only be a truly romantic idea, but from that day forward, your partner won’t ever be able to give you the excuse that they’ve forgotten your anniversary. If you like the idea of having your wedding rings engraved with your wedding date, a song lyric or something sentimental to you both, speak to your jeweller in advance, to ensure that engraving the shape and style of the wedding rings you choose is possible.  

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Cain Manor, Hampshire

Write a Love Letter

There’s nothing more romantic than receiving a love letter. Sneak the letter in to your husband or wife-to-be’s bag so that they find it as a surprise, or have your bridesmaid or best man deliver the letter to your partner as they’re getting ready for the wedding either at home or in the bridal suite at your wedding venue. You could also include a sentimental gift; one that can be worn on the day like jewellery or a watch, or a token to treasure forever.  

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Silchester House, Berkshire

Hire a Wedding Singer

If you love the idea of being serenaded by a wedding singer then you’re certain to find numerous suppliers to hire in for your special day. Perhaps let the wedding singer know which songs mean the most to you as a couple in advance or you could say nothing and plan the whole thing as a surprise for your partner.  Think ahead and see if you could incorporate a wedding singer in to your wedding plans and budget; they could perform during your wedding ceremony, at your drinks reception, during your wedding banquet or even for your first dance as a married couple. Explore the possibilities before making a decision.

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Botleys Mansion, Surrey

Book a Surprise Destination Honeymoon

Your partner can know about the concept of this surprise in advance, but when it comes to the actual location of your honeymoon, consider keeping this a complete secret until you’re at the airport. Ensure the honeymoon fits within budget and think about adding little luxuries along the way, such as a couple’s massage, several romantic dinners or even an upgrade on your flights to first class!

Alison Hargreaves Guides for Brides Bio

About the author


Alison Hargreaves

Alison has been advising brides, grooms and bridesmaids for more than 25 years. She has an unrivalled knowledge of the British wedding industry and frequently appears on podcasts and expert panels. She regularly attends international wedding conferences to keep the UK at the forefront of wedding planning trends.

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