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Monthly Archives: February 2012

To err is human, to forgive is divine

Church
Those with an eagle eye may have noticed a major change to our site with the addition of 9168 churches last night. This is a major project that we have been quietly working on with the Church of England for several months and will, at last, make churches more accessible to couples who do not regularly attend.

Unfortunately we overlooked one minor issue, and as we uploaded adverts for every Church of England church, from Guernsey to the Isle of Man, an automated email went to every single one of them confirming a total of £871000 in advertising.

Never before have we answered quite so many phone calls in such a short period of time, while waiting for approval from the church media office to send an email to confirm that we are not charging churches for this service.

What has surprised us, from the calls we have received, is the variation from church to church in the understanding and interpretation of the Marriage Measure 2008. Some have asked for the wording on our site to be changed to discourage “casual Christianity” they would like to make it clear that couples are expected to have a strong connection with the church where they would like to marry as well as regularly attending for at least six months and undertaking to join an ongoing “support” group. Other vicars are keen to make everyone welcome if the law allows it.

It will be interesting to see whether making the church more accessible to couples starts to correct the balance between civil ceremonies and church weddings.

Leap Day Proposals

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Are brides ready with a wedding ring?

That tradition of 29th February each leap year being the one day that women can propose goes back many hundreds of years to when the date had no recognition in English law – indeed the term came from the day being ‘lept over’ and ignored.

It was considered that as the day had no legal status, it was reasonable to assume that traditions, including the fact that it should be the man who proposes, also had no status.

Women who were concerned about being ‘left on the shelf’ took advantage of this anomaly and proposed to the man they wished to marry.

It was also thought that since the leap year day corrected the discrepancy between the calendar year (365 days) and the time taken for the Earth to complete one orbit of the sun (365 days and 6 hours), it was an opportunity for women to correct a tradition that was one-sided and unjust.

While many traditions have gradually disappeared, this is one that is still going strong, and there will be some nervous looking men around tomorrow….

Wedding TV


It was great to sign an agreement with Wedding TV today. They have had a rough few months with changes in owners and investors, but they have a great team headed up by the indomitable Nick Tiday and some great content on their channel.

In the United States, wedding television shows are big news, and with the popularity of Big Fat Gypsy Weddings and Four Weddings in the UK we are heading in the same direction. Sky’s Wedding TV channel currently includes content on venues, honeymoon features and a couple of different series on wedding cakes. “Crafty Brides” will follow soon – a series on how to make your own wedding dress, cakes, invites and bouquet. We will be featuring some of their content on our web site and look forward to seeing our TV adverts going out over the next few months.

Sky’s Wedding TV can be found on Channel 266

Church of England wedding fees

We have followed the Church of England fee increase debate with interest, not least because Trudi was invited to talk about it on BBC Breakfast News this morning, with a copy of Guides for Brides in hand.

The Church has seen a 4% increase in couples choosing to marry in Church and it is little surprise that they are now checking that their fees are consistent with the work involved.

Most couples will notice very little difference, and certainly not the 40% increase being suggested by the media, as the new fees include essential items such as lighting and administration which had previously been charged as “extras”.

In addition to the main wedding fee (£296 in 2012, £415 for weddings taking place after January 2013) churches will continue to offer additional services, such as organists, bell ringers, vergers and heating, at an additional charge.

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Fees for church weddings are set to increase to £415 in 2013

Wedding planning taking over your email account?

I was talking to a bride and groom at a recent wedding fair who are trying not to let their wedding planning take over their lives.

To try and limit the time that they spend sending and recieving emails, they have set up a seperate email address just for their wedding planning. This meant that wedding emails were not blocking up their personal or even work email accounts, and there was less temptation to be checking them when they shouldn’t be!

This is a great, but simple idea to enable you to keep all communication in one place with both the bride and groom being able to see what is going on with the arrrangements.